🌒 Ritual & Reverie : Where Shadow & Light Make Love
a sensual, soul-centered retreat weaving ancestral remembrance, erotic ritual, and altered states of reverence.
October 31 - November 2 | Clayton, GA (1 hour 45 minutes from both ATL & AVL)
Enter the temple… and undress your soul.
This Halloween weekend — the liminal season of Samhain and Día de los Muertos — you're invited to a deliciously sacred retreat where we gather to remember who they truly are: divine, desirable, and deeply connected.
Ritual & Reverie is a three-day journey into the erotic, the ecstatic, and the eternal. We’ll explore kink as a path to truth, pleasure as a portal to spirit, and plant medicine as a sacred key to the heart’s wild knowing. Here, we make love with the Mystery — in our breath, our bodies, and our becoming.
Let yourself be unmasked. Be met. Be moved.
This is not your average “men’s retreat.” This is queer temple meets shadow play, ancestral magic meets body worship, grief ritual meets heart-thumping, soul-throbbing liberation.
We’re not just talking sacred sexuality.
We’re making it flesh.
🖤 What May Await You
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🖤 Erotic ritual + kink-positive workshops that awaken both tenderness and turn-on
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🌿 A heart-opening plant medicine ceremony held in reverence and care
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🧘♂️ Embodiment practices (movement, breath, yoga, nature pleasure) to connect body and soul
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💀 Grief ritual & ancestral remembrance to honor the season of spirits
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🔥 Integration circles & sensual community with men walking the same brave path
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🍑 Nourishing meals, cozy spaces, and plenty of time to soften, soak, and connect
This retreat is lovingly designed to center queer and BIPOC (black, indigenous, and people of color) experiences while welcoming all men of respectful curiosity — including yt (white) allies, bisexual, bicurious, and hetero men drawn to embodied connection and transformation.
🐉✨ As queer men, we carry ancient lineages of erotic mysticism, ecstatic ritual, and divine embodiment — lineages that have too often been hidden, erased, or condemned. Yet throughout history, from the sacred orgiastic rites of Dionysian mystery cults in ancient Greece to the trance-fueled ceremonies of Indigenous communities across the globe, queer people have served as threshold-keepers, pleasure-priests, and spiritual intermediaries. In this retreat, we remember that our desire is not separate from the divine — it is a path to it. When we gather in reverence, vulnerability, and altered states of truth, we’re not just healing ourselves — we’re reactivating an ancient tradition of queer wisdom-keeping that the world desperately needs.
🌀 Proposed Itinerary
Friday, October 31 — ARRIVAL & AWAKENING 🎃
4:00–7:00 PM — Check-in & Arrival Rituals
7:00 PM — Welcome Dinner
8:30 PM — Opening Circle: “Unmasking the Divine”
10:00 PM — Erotic Energy Activation + Fireside Seduction
Saturday, November 1 — SHADOW & SACRAMENT 🫀
10:00 AM — Morning Pleasure Practice (Yoga / Sensual Movement)
11:30 AM — Brunch + Free Time (Naps, Hikes, Hand-Holding…)
1:00 PM — Consent + Kink Workshop: Tying Up Shame, Unleashing Truth
4:00 PM — Plant Medicine Ceremony
~10:30 PM — Post-Ceremony Dinner & Integration
Sunday, November 2 — REVERENCE & REVELATION 🦉
10:30 AM — Brunch
12:00 PM — Grief Ritual & Ancestral Communion
3:00 PM — Pleasure Mapping + Erotic Communion Practice
5:00 PM — Closing Ritual
6:30 PM — Farewell Dinner (or Departures for those heading home)
Optional Sunday Overnight → Monday, November 3
Stay one more night, soak in the glow, and depart by 10 AM after breakfast.
🌿 Why Plant Medicine?
At the heart of the weekend lies a ceremonial evening with a gentle, heart-opening plant sacrament — known for helping many access deep emotional healing, embodied clarity, and ecstatic joy.
This sacred ally doesn’t blast you into outer space — she invites you gently inward: to the lush, pulsing garden of your inner world. You may cry. You may laugh. You may feel like your body is made of velvet and your soul is singing opera. You may just breathe, feel, and be held.
Participation is always optional. And fully honored, either way.
❓ Frequently Asked Queerstions
Is this only for queer men?
The space centers queer experiences and BIPOC voices — but is open to all men (gay, bi, trans, masc nonbinary, bicurious, or hetero) who feel called into this kind of soulful, sensual, and sacred exploration.
Do I have to be experienced with plant medicine or kink?
Not at all. Whether this is your first time or your fiftieth, we move at your pace and offer education, support, and full permission to participate as much or as little as feels right.
Is nudity expected?
Never. Some practices may involve optional nudity or touch, but consent is sacred. Curiosity is welcome, and boundaries are celebrated.
What will I need to bring?
A full packing list will be provided, but think: ritual wear, layers for cozy mountain nights, objects for an altar, and whatever makes you feel sexy, sacred, or simply… you.
Can I stay the extra night?
Yes. Sunday night is available for those who’d like more time to integrate, cuddle, connect, or just melt into the mountain magic a little longer.
Sunday night stay (Nov 2–3): +$60–$100 sliding scale (includes simple breakfast Monday morning)
🕯️ Come Closer…
Your soul has waited a lifetime for this.
If you're aching for something more honest…
If you're ready to feel turned on by life again…
If you're hungry for truth, touch, and something sacred to hold…
Then come join us — in Ritual & Reverie.
We’ll be waiting in the woods.
With firelight, warm food, and our hearts wide open.
🦦 CLAIM YOUR SPOT IN THE DEN
Beds are limited. For guys ready to trade small talk for soul talk, porn for presence, and loneliness for brotherhood that burns bright.
Payment plans & POC scholarships available
Questions? Slide into our DMs: colter@colterwild.com
THE WILD IS CALLING. WILL YOU RISE TO MEET YOURSELF?
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Single Bed
Bunk Room
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