Hearts & Horns | Dirtbag Spirituality Retreat | Gold Coast, FL

Dirtbag Spirituality : The Reatreat | Hearts + Horns

Sacred Connection meets Primal Desires

February 13 - 16, 2026 | Gold Coast, Florida (Fort Lauderdale)

Forget the stale chocolates and forced romance. This Valentine's Day Weekend 2026, we're rewriting the script on love in Ft. Lauderdale.

Hearts & Horns is a sanctuary where the sacred and the feral collide. This is your invitation to a clothing-optional, sex-positive playground crafted for queer men to explore the full spectrum of their being—from the primal pull of desire to the transcendent peak of connection.

We're building a container for you to:

- Awaken your Kundalini through ecstatic dance and tantric breathwork, turning your body into a conduit of life force.

- Express your authentic self in a wild, judgment-free zone where your truth is not just accepted, but celebrated.

- Explore primal desires with conscious intention, where every impulse becomes a doorway to deeper self-knowing and intimate connection.

This is where you can shed the armor, get gloriously wild, and become deeply grounded in the raw, beautiful truth of who you are. Join us for a Valentine's experience that honors the most important relationship you'll ever have—the one with your untamed self.

PLANT MEDICINE JOURNEY (ethical, intention-driven) Guided by trained facilitators, we’ll navigate the liminal with reverence and radical self-trust.

EMBODIED WISDOM

- Shamanic Reiki & Energy Work – Colter Cobra Wild

- Fetish/Kinkdynamics Therapy – Red Clay Boy

This is a clothing-optional, queer-celebrated, kink-conscious space. Come as you are—your fears, your turn-ons, your existential dread, and your weird little joys.

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Your Home for the Weekend

Start your day with a dip in the pool. Nourish your body with high-vibration, delicious meals, prepared to delight your senses and fuel your journey. In the evenings, unwind in the hot tub or gather on the screened porch for heartfelt conversations that flow as freely as the night air.

Every detail has been crafted to support your comfort, relaxation, and transformation. From large, inviting beds to spaces designed for reflection and connection, you’ll feel cared for and held throughout your stay.

A Journey of Connection and Liberation

This retreat is for those seeking more than a weekend escape—it’s for those ready to step into their authentic selves and experience the power of brotherhood, healing, and connection. While everyone is welcome, Pulse of the Wild centers and uplifts the experiences of Black, Brown, Indigenous, and People of Color. This intentional space celebrates diversity and fosters authentic, meaningful connections.

Through carefully curated practices, you’ll dive deep into your wild and sacred essence:
Tantric Rituals: Solo, partner, and group practices designed to awaken your primal energy, explore desire, and connect you to the divine within yourself and others.
Plant Medicine Journey: A guided exploration into altered states of consciousness, offering profound healing and connection to spirit.
Rewilding the Masculine: Exercises and practices to reconnect with your primal roots while honoring the sacred feminine within each of us.
Movement and Ceremony: Rituals aligned with nature’s rhythms, including firelight gatherings, healing circles, and sacred celebrations.
What You’ll Take Away
A profound sense of connection—to yourself, to others, and to the natural world.
Tools for healing, growth, and self-discovery that you can carry into your everyday life.
A renewed sense of liberation, love, and joy in your authentic expression.
Memories of laughter, deep conversations, and shared moments of transformation with a brotherhood that feels like home.

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Why Join Us?

This is your chance to:

Shed the layers of societal expectations and embrace your untamed, authentic self.
Be witnessed and held by a close-knit tribe of loving, supportive friends and brothers.
Celebrate the richness of diverse identities in a space where all voices are honored.
Explore the edges of your comfort zone in a safe, supportive, and playful environment.
Reclaim your connection to primal energy, sacred desire, and wild freedom.

Let’s Create Something Unforgettable

When you join Pulse of the Wild, you’re stepping into a celebration of life itself—a weekend of healing, joy, and exploration that will leave you feeling deeply alive and profoundly connected.

The time is now. The space is here. The wild is calling.

Guides & Teachers

Colter Cobra Wild

Shamanic healer, psychedelic integration guide, energy healer, Reiki II practitioner, yoga and meditation instructor, Colter Cobra Wild delights playing in these liminal spaces, yet undefined by science and reason, and he has become an expert in Experiential Spirituality, the process of guiding a person to experience the Divine for themselves. Colter studied meditation, yoga, tantra, plant medicines, breathwork, as well as spiritual tradition and ceremony from around the world, including with Mazatec mushroom curanderos, with especial focus on modalities that allow a person to experience the Divine, beyond dogma and doctrine.

Colter also received a B.S. in biology from the University of Utah - focusing on psychology, exercise physiology and nutrition, as well wildlife and land conservation. He loves incorporating these sciences into his methods to create unique and transformative ceremonial experiences for other souls on their own unique spiritual journeys. His ceremonial spaces tend to be playful and curious, and are a safe space for the full expression of human emotion and exploration while always maintaining high levels of inclusivity, care, and respect for individual safety and well-being.

Red Clay Boy Llim Smiley

Philosopher-Teacher • Kinkdynamics Pioneer • Ecstatic Movement Alchemist

Red Clay Boy is a walking paradox—a Navy veteran with the soul of a rogue poet, an ASCAP-recorded artist who scores liberation anthems, and a professional male dominatrix who weaves fetish, psychology, and sacred rhythm into a tapestry of liberation.

Red’s work is a sabotage of the ordinary—blending fetish, philosophy, and unapologetic humor into a practice he calls Fetish & Kinkdynamics Therapy. His sessions are equal parts intellectual spelunking and primal catharsis. Their workshops feel like a sermon from a future cult you’d actually join.

As a videographer, he frames raw humanity through an unfiltered lens. As a dominatrix, he sculpts power dynamics into sacred play. And as a guide, he’ll have you singing your shadow’s anthem one minute and questioning every ‘should’ you’ve ever swallowed the next.